| The Daily Telegraph offers nine suggestions to improve your relationships in the New Year. |
英國(guó)《每日電訊報(bào)》為我們?cè)谛碌囊荒昀锔纳迫穗H關(guān)系提供了9條建議。? |
| 1. Take time to work out your priorities. Decide who is most important to you and make sure they get the attention they need. |
1. 花點(diǎn)時(shí)間分出個(gè)輕重緩急。找出對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)最重要的人或事，確保給予他們足夠的關(guān)注。 |
| 2. Increase the amount of "face-to-face" time with your partner. |
2. 增加和別人面對(duì)面交談的時(shí)間。 |
| 3. Limit your criticisms. |
3. 盡量少批評(píng)別人。 |
| 4. Practise being a good listener. |
4. 試著成為一個(gè)好的聆聽(tīng)者。 |
| 5. Take responsibility for your actions. |
5. 對(duì)自己的行為負(fù)責(zé)。 |
| 6. Be prepared to say "I'm sorry" and mean it. |
6. 時(shí)刻準(zhǔn)備好說(shuō)“對(duì)不起”，并且要真誠(chéng)。 |
| 7. Show your appreciation. |
7. 不吝嗇你的贊美。 |
| 8. Take the initiative. If you are single and want to go on a date, ask someone out. |
8. 采取主動(dòng)。如果單身的你想要約會(huì)，那就邀請(qǐng)對(duì)方出來(lái)。 |
| 9. Let "no" mean "no". Too many relationships suffer because people cannot say "no" to their partners. Saying "no" more often could be this year's main resolution. |
9. 勇敢地說(shuō)“不”。很多關(guān)系走入困境都是因?yàn)樗麄儾粫?huì)拒絕。多說(shuō)一些“不”，可能就是你今年走出困境的法寶。
（China.org.cn） |
